There comes a moment in growth that feels like standing in a doorway. Behind you: the familiar version of you — the one people got used to. Ahead: the version God is shaping — quieter in spirit, stronger in identity, wiser in boundaries. And right in the middle is where it gets hard. Because people will always remember the version of you that benefited them. The agreeable you. The available you. The "I’ll bend so you’re comfortable" you. But God is growing the “I honor my cal