You ever wake up one day and realize the life you’re living doesn’t quite fit  anymore? Like wearing jeans from five years ago — technically they still button, but breathing becomes a luxury. Growth feels like that. There’s a strange gap between who you’re becoming and where you currently are. You’re stretching, expanding, learning… and sometimes the people around you still expect the “old you” to show up. They liked the version of you who didn’t have boundaries. Who said yes

There comes a moment in growth that feels like standing in a doorway. Behind you: the familiar version of you — the one people got used to. Ahead: the version God is shaping — quieter in spirit, stronger in identity, wiser in boundaries. And right in the middle is where it gets hard. Because people will always remember the version of you that benefited them. The agreeable you. The available you. The "I’ll bend so you’re comfortable" you. But God is growing the “I honor my cal